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		<title>Talash/Quest  (Book Review)</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 09:58:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Book Title: Talash Author: Mumtaz Mufti Pages: 260 Words about author: Mumtaz Mufti was considered a non-conformist writer having liberal views “TALASH” (search, to look for), is a book in which the author quest for the definition of a true and simple “Muslim”. He is startled to find out that despite of being born in [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=364&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Book Title: Talash<br />
Author: Mumtaz Mufti<br />
Pages: 260</p>
<p>Words about author: Mumtaz Mufti was considered a non-conformist writer having liberal views</p>
<p>“TALASH” (search, to look for), is a book in which the author quest for the definition of a true and simple “Muslim”. He is startled to find out that despite of being born in a Muslim family and raised in a Muslim country, the meaning of his own identity is vague to him. The book convinces reader to discover his inner-self and expresses the liberal views of the author about the so-called Islamic scholars and their preaching to our younger generation. It also highlights the true spirit of Quranic teaching in our daily lives. BUT WAIT, this does not mean that Talash is a book full of lengthy mystic lectures rather it is free from rhetoric and is simple to understand.</p>
<p>The First point the author tries to accentuate is the rapport between Allah and human. He strongly criticizes the Illiterate and so-called Islamic scholars ( molvis or ulmay dein) as they are relentlessly depicting a negative and strict image of Allah-man relationship . They are molding the Islamic laws as per their wishes and benefits, due to which there always exists discrepancies in all Islamic issues. This is one of the most obvious reasons that are stopping our younger generation to develop their interest in understanding the real meaning of this balanced religion. Younger generation have clung to the belief that Allah is very strict and is ready to punish us for our every single misdeed. Where as in reality, this is most reliable and strong relationship then any other. He is with us in all the moments of grief as well as joy, he acts a friend and at sametime as a mother, he is always listening to you and no matter what you do he always loves you all time and is always ready to forgive you . Instead of being of scared from him (as molvis tell us) it is better to respect him and in order to create a good relationship with Allah we need to take him with us in every single moment of our life.</p>
<p>Next point highlighted by author is that in order for Muslims to prosper it is of extremely important to follow the characteristics (actions) of our Prophet (S.A.W). He have presented some really good examples in the book. Now a days Muslims are taking islam as a ritual or rather a source of identification. Following the characteristics (serat) of Prophet (P.B.U.H) is paramount way to create the harmony and balance in ones life.</p>
<p>Later the authors’ states that Talash (search) for knowing oneself doesn’t end here rather it is chronic process and one need to struggle for it through out the life. When one will struggle then one will search and this is the basic purpose of Islam. “To find, to discover the underlying secrets” and the only key to reveal these secretes is “HOLY QURAN”.</p>
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		<title>Pyar ka Phela Sheher- Book Review</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 09:54:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Title of the book: Pyar ka Pehla Sheher Author:- Mustansar Hussain Tarar Pages:- 262 “Pyar ka Pehla Sheher” is one of the most interesting romantic Novels. It is a story about pure and innocent love. The author tries to delineate two points through this novel. Love has never reserved itself for beautiful or physically fit [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=362&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Title of the book: <strong><em>Pyar ka Pehla Sheher</em></strong><br />
Author:- <strong><em>Mustansar Hussain Tarar</em></strong><br />
Pages:- <strong><em>262</em></strong></p>
<p>“Pyar ka Pehla Sheher” is one of the most interesting romantic Novels. It is a story about pure and innocent love. The author tries to delineate two points through this novel. Love has never reserved itself for beautiful or physically fit people rather everyone falls in love once or many times in their life. It just happens and sees no boundary, country, nationality etc. Second, in today’s world we define a handicap person as “a person who is either physically or mentally unfit”, whereas in author’s point of view everyone whether he/she realize it or not at some point in their life become handicap. We all desire to mold the life in our own way but most of the time constraints such as culture, poverty, hunger, family, education, job etc make us handicap and we are bound to make the tough and unwanted decisions.</p>
<p>It is a story about a Pakistani tourist “Sunan”, who on this way to France meets “Paskal” , a handicap (lame) yet beautiful French young lady. Paskal seems to be in the complex of inferiority due to her disability to properly walk. Sunan decides to spend sometime with Paskal and help her in getting back to the normal life again. They spend some time together and soon they both realize that they are deeply in love with each other. Paskal on getting the true love becomes ready to sacrifice everything for Sunan and now Sunan due to the cultural and social constraints needs to make a decision. …….To find out whether Sunan marries Paskal or not , read and enjoy the novel………………</p>
<p>Mustansir Hussain Tarar not only did a wonderful job in expressing the feelings of novel’s characters with his magical words, but while reading this novel one can enjoy also enjoy the history and description of some famous places of Paris. I strongly recommend this novel to all Urdu literature readers.</p>
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		<title>RAJA Gidh (king of Scavenger) &#8211; Book Review</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 10:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Title: Raja Gidh Author: Bano Qudsia Pages: 406 Raja Gidh, a phenomenal and classical novel written by Bano Qudsia . This novel not only delinates the long-trem effects of “Rizq-e-Haraam” on the lives of human beings ,but helps in revealing some of the main reasons for dissatisfied and catastrophic life. The characters in Raja Gidh [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=366&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Title: <em>Raja Gidh</em><br />
Author: <em>Bano Qudsia</em><br />
Pages: <em>406</em><br />
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Raja Gidh, a phenomenal and classical novel written by Bano Qudsia . This novel not only delinates the long-trem effects of “Rizq-e-Haraam” on the lives of human beings ,but helps in revealing some of the main reasons for dissatisfied and catastrophic life.</p>
<p>The characters in Raja Gidh are everyday characters (basically it’s us). The writer compares the ‘human nature’ with ‘Gidh’ (scavenger) and tries to convince the reader that humans are just like Gidhs (even worst then them). If a Gidhs eat meat of only dead animal so are humans, who always like to take advantages of weak /disturb and emotionally dead people. In trying to gain what is beyond his/her destination he often choose the forbidden path which leads him to earn Rizq-e-haraam. The writer comprehensively explains the adverse effects of Rizq-e-haraam on human’s genes mutation process. It could lead to insanity and abnormality which is then genetically transferred to next generations.</p>
<p>The second point which is strongly highlighted though out the novel is the concept of “Ishq–e-Lahasil” (love with no destination) . Love for forbidden desires always leads a person in earning rizq-e-haraam which in turn destroyes one’s life and at the end the person is left alone with nothing except his discontented life. In order to convince the reader on this point, characters of Qayyum and Semi Shah are introduced in novel. Qayyum, a middle class member of society falls in loves with Semi Shah, a liberal and beautiful women who had a true love for her other class fellow. Due to some circumstances Semi is unable to marry her beloved and this makes her emotionally upset and weak. During this time of depression and loniless Qayyum takes physical advantage of Semi Shah but as always remains unsuccessful in emotionally molding her love feeling towards him. This was Ishq-e- lahasil of Qayyum. He ran after someone who was never meant for him and his desire lead him towards the wrong path and he kept moving in the wrong direction and at the end was left alone with nothing but regret and dissatisfaction.</p>
<p>This novel strongly reflects on the negatives points of our society today. If only we can understand the concept and adverse effects of Rizq-e- haram and learn to strongly believe in Allah and the fate decided by him , we are likely to prosper as a good Muslim and a perfect member of society. I strongly recommend this novel to all and lot of thanks to Bano Qudsia for such a great contribution to Urdu literature.</p>
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		<title>Truth &#8230;</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 11 Sep 2011 19:28:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s one sad truth in life I&#8217;ve found While journeying east and west - The only folks we really wound Are those we love the best. We flatter those we scarcely know, We please the fleeting guest, And deal full many a thoughtless blow To those who love us best. ~Ella Wheeler Wilcox<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=357&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>There&#8217;s one sad truth in life I&#8217;ve found<br />
While journeying east and west -<br />
The only folks we really wound<br />
Are those we love the best.<br />
We flatter those we scarcely know,<br />
We please the fleeting guest,<br />
And deal full many a thoughtless blow<br />
To those who love us best.<br />
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<p><strong>~</strong><em>Ella Wheeler Wilcox</em></p>
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		<title>Education for the sake of education- Why not let us decide ?</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Aug 2011 22:07:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I always feel honored to see many women around me progressing, getting better education and making something out of them.  You may call me biased as I get over-excited when  given chance to share the achievements made by women especially from the vulnerable societies. It gives me sense of women empowerment and equality. To be [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=321&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always feel honored to see many women around me progressing, getting better education and making something out of them.  You may call me biased as I get over-excited when  given chance to share the achievements made by women especially from the vulnerable societies. It gives me sense of women empowerment and equality. To be honest, if I had to advocate on women empowerment be it in any field, I can do it round the clock without complaining. I always consider EDUCATION as the most important tool to empower women but it that it?? If yes then why do I see the trend of many educated women not allowed to make decisions??  Why they are being called illogical (in order words, they dont&#8217; know anything) ? Are we missing something important???</p>
<p>Well, let me elucidate my reason for this curiosity. Today, I met an exceptionally intelligent and diligent bachelor degree holder, Ayesha. She is daughter of our close family friends who love to have their daughters being educated. I use to consider  parents of Ayesha as very liberal and understanding. Ayesha told me that she had the same view  but her perception has changed when she was refused to pursue masters in the field of her choice, “Mass communication”. She was forcefully registered in MS English program, as it was solely her parent’s choice.  She discussed her desires, dreams and plans with her parents for mass communication but each time she failed to convince them.  She even realised that they don&#8217;t have valid argument to deny her this opportunity and the only thing they want is the tag of &#8220;Masters&#8221;. When she resisted, her parents warned her, that if she have to pursue her studies she must go for English else she would have to quit her studies.  Finally Ayesha went by her parents choice as the consequence of not getting further education is too much for her ,even though the last thing on the earth she wants to do is to teach. Trust me it was not a financial problem. Her father thinks that Ayesha is just a kid and not logical enough to make right decision and after all English will give her a good teaching career. REALLY, a bachelor degree holder who is passionate and focused  cannot make decision??? Haven’t these 14 years of education empowered her to make her decision? Am I hearing this right?  How can one be creative if he/she can’t make decisions of their own? In developed countries, students make decisions at their own even before they hit eighteen.</p>
<p>I feel so saddened that in in our society we are only excited about the education part and rarely empowering women on decision-making. Even after years of education , we believe that they don’t have enough sense to think good for themselves or solve a logical matter.   In my view,  education and empowerment polishes ones ability to make rational decision. Its fine it the decision doesn’t give you expected results after all we all are humans and failures are a natural learning process. After talking to Ayesha, I feel that when we talk of education empowerment we should not forget to highlight the power of Decision-making. After all, this is one of the gifts given to us by education.</p>
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		<title>Pakistan&#8217;s Young Social Entrepreneurs &#8212; The hope for better Pakistan.</title>
		<link>http://learningrandomly.wordpress.com/2011/05/24/pakistans-young-social-entrepreneur-the-hope-for-better-pakistan/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 May 2011 20:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today I met an impressive team of  Active Citizenship , a program being funded by British Council. Most of the team members are below the age of 18 and belong to the deprived rural areas of Pakistan. They  are actively involved in awareness, education, cleanliness, livelihood, human rights etc projects and are creating a huge [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=309&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div>Today I met an impressive team of  Active Citizenship , a program being funded by British Council. Most of the team members are below the age of 18 and belong to the deprived rural areas of Pakistan. They  are actively involved in awareness, education, cleanliness, livelihood, human rights etc projects and are creating a huge impact in the society around them. For example , one of the many team members told me that  in their village people never use to make identification cards for females but by education them and bringing awareness almost all of the girls from village holds an identity now and most importantly can VOTE. Isnt&#8217; this just super amazing. This is something, I and you hardly realize but someone hardly 23 years of age , out there in a resource deprived village is already doing it.  Not once did I heard  the complain about lack of opportunities , blame of government or military frauds or corruption in country rather they were extremely motivated to make Pakistan a better place by pooling in their role be in a little.</div>
<div> I am completely overjoyed to see their enthusiasm and positive attitude towards the society. Our REAL SOCIAL Entrepreneurs and their phenomenal work  tells me not get frustrated or panic about the future of country. We are safe as far as we are making a positive change somewhere in the society.  May Allah bless Pakistan ..(Ameen)</div>
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		<title>Disappointing Response of Media</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2011 19:21:22 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am very disappointed by Pakistani media for paying no/little attention over the huge success of our hockey team against India.  Hockey is national  game of Pakistan but very little efforts are ever made to highlight it as compared to cricket.  I still remember the hype in media about the cricket world cup 2011. The [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=306&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am very disappointed by Pakistani media for paying no/little attention over the huge success of our hockey team against India.  Hockey is national  game of Pakistan but very little efforts are ever made to highlight it as compared to cricket.  I still remember the hype in media about the cricket world cup 2011. The game felt like a war. A holiday was announced in the country and I could feel the excitement and emotions in my brother voice  ( a BIG cricket  fan) while  discussing the match.  Even in USA majority of Pakistanis took day off just to witness the match of Pakistan against  India (Two Rivals). Unfortunately we lost the match but  we won our national game.  I am wondering what happened now? Why are we  especially our FREE MEDIA so quite over our hockey  victory against  India after a long time.? It seems like media only look for defeats . In the Chaos of Osama issue, we need this ray of happiness .  Seriously Guys !  HELP us CELEBRATE our VICTORY&#8230;</p>
<p>A proud Pakistani</p>
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		<title>Is your message complete?</title>
		<link>http://learningrandomly.wordpress.com/2011/04/25/is-your-message-complete/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 25 Apr 2011 00:53:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;Smoking kills &#8221; , &#8221; Stop Child Abuse &#8221; or &#8220; Donate your blood and make a difference&#8221; ,   I noticed these sorts of messages everyday while driving but something seems missing.   Do you find anything wrong with these kind messages????  Well I am wise enough to know that smoking can kill and even a chain [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=300&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;<em><strong>Smoking kills</strong></em> &#8221; , &#8221; <em><strong>Stop Child Abuse &#8221; or </strong></em>&#8220;<em><strong> Donate your blood and make a difference&#8221;</strong></em> ,   I noticed these sorts of messages everyday while driving but something seems missing.   Do you find anything wrong with these kind messages????  Well I am wise enough to know that smoking can kill and even a chain smokers can very well explain you about the harmful effects of smoking . I also understand the importance of donating blood and saving life so does every human being on the earth. Then why displaying these redundant messages ? Do these message actually communicate anything or  they are just there to make our day bad?</p>
<p>To me any message without an action is useless. What good a message will do if it fails to call an action from its audience.  There is no rocket science involve in telling audience the steps  he or she needs to take in response to the message.  It can be anything from a  simple phone call, email, donation, SMS, registrationetc. Actions with message always help in  initiating an effective communication. Let me rephrase a messages with the relevant action, &#8220;<em><strong>Stop Child abuse  by calling Madad helpline (24/7) &#8221;  </strong>or<strong> &#8221; Donate your blood and make a difference through Bloodsaves Foundation&#8221;. </strong></em></p>
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		<title>What do I miss most about Pakistan?</title>
		<link>http://learningrandomly.wordpress.com/2011/03/27/what-did-i-miss-most-about-pakistan/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Mar 2011 04:50:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#8220;What do you miss most about Pakistan&#8221;?, a question that I frequently encounter in USA. I have long list of things including environment, friends, family, people, my village, organic food, weddings etc that I  desperately miss but above all is &#8220;Azaan&#8221; (Muslim Call of prayer).  I perceive  Azaan as the most romantic and most soothing [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=288&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;What do you miss most about Pakistan&#8221;?, a question that I frequently encounter in USA. I have long list of things including environment, friends, family, people, my village, organic food, weddings etc that I  desperately miss but above all is &#8220;Azaan&#8221; (Muslim Call of prayer).  I perceive  Azaan as the most romantic and most soothing call in the world which defines the strong relationship between the creator and people.  Five times a days, 7 days a week and 365  a year, Allah calls his people to meet and greet him . Isn&#8217;t it wonderful that we never need to approach any secretary  for the meetings aside from Allah. Once you attend the call by offering prayers you can share all your worries, pain, desires, blessing , happiness etc  with Allah, who promise to listen and answer  everything you are asking , no matter what.  I simply love the outcome of this call.</p>
<p>Here I use to put alarm and install azaan software on to my PC and even went to mosque sometimes but still its not the same . I just can&#8217;t wait to be in Pakistan to feel the feel of Azaan.</p>
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		<title>Do you appreciate yourself?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Mar 2011 20:02:15 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Shamila Keyani</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday, I and my friend ( who has recently shifted to Australia),  had discussion about  job hunting .  My friend  is exceptionally talented,  smart  and diligent. She has done her bachelors and masters in the field of Information and communication technology  (ICT) with flying colors and was offered jobs from IT companies in Pakistan, but [...]<img alt="" border="0" src="http://stats.wordpress.com/b.gif?host=learningrandomly.wordpress.com&amp;blog=13143250&amp;post=277&amp;subd=learningrandomly&amp;ref=&amp;feed=1" width="1" height="1" />]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday, I and my friend ( who has recently shifted to Australia),  had discussion about  job hunting .  My friend  is exceptionally talented,  smart  and diligent. She has done her bachelors and masters in the field of Information and communication technology  (ICT) with flying colors and was offered jobs from IT companies in Pakistan, but somehow she is not convinced that she can find job in Australia.   The reason stated by her is that  she feels that she is not capable enough to find a job in her domain. The reason for this illogical conclusion is the people in her social circle. I must admit that they have done an extra-ordinary job to persuade her into believing that Pakistani graduates have no place in multinational companies of Australia. They explained  her how talent and degree is will never be valued in Australia and that  she better invest her efforts for an administrative job.  To my dismay majority of these people   have no background in ICT and few of them never earned any recognized degree.  Is this some kind of joke or what.  Isn&#8217;t this funny as to how much we underestimate ourselves in opinions/comments  of others whom don&#8217;t even know us well and have absolutely no idea about our talents and capabilities ?</p>
<p>We tend to loose so many opportunities in our lives just  because we believe in negatives more than positives. There exists no human being  on the face of  earth without a talent and no one in this world knows you better than your own self.  So learn to believe in yourself . To be honest, I have totally lost the count of the people whose have demotivated me in my life and I am sure this statistic  doesn&#8217;t matter anyway. I strongly believe in being humble but with this I equally weight the  importance of appreciating oneself.  Never forget to stretch your hand  to pat yourself, its must for you.</p>
<p>Good luck with your dreams and plans.</p>
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